Proquiz time

/answer questions dudesons.
serious answers = you're gonna learn something about yourself.

1. What is more difficult for you; looking into someone's eyes when you are telling someone how you feel, or looking into someone’s eyes when they are telling you how they feel?


2. Think of the last time you were REALLY angry + explain the circumstances.


3. You can have one of the following two things: trust/love. Explain and justify which.


4. You are walking down the street on your way to work. There is a dog drowning in the canal on the side of the street. Your boss has told you if you are late one more time you get fired. What do you do?


5. Think of the last person who you really knew that died. You have the chance to give them one day of life back, but you have to give five years of your life. Do you?


6. Are you the kind of friend that you would want to have as a friend?


7. When and how was the last time you told someone HONESTLY how you felt?


8. What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up on.

1-both*
2-n/a
3-cointoss
4-to work!**
5-yes***
6-no
7-n/a (..age 3?)
8-my delusions

*eye contact...
**funny story about this
***as cruel as it would be to bring someone back for a day, i know a few people that would benefit from it

Edit: what typos?

This post has been edited by penguinoflight on Nov 6 2009, 06:22 PM

1. I find it equally difficult.
2. My mom tried to force me to move back because my dad is still paying child support for me, and I told him to go to court and file for custody.
3. Trust. Love can only take you so far. Trust ensures a much more stable relationship/friendship.
4. I go to work. A drowning dog isn't my problem, someone else can save it. It's not my dog.
5. No. No one I've been close to has died yet.
6. Hell no.
7. CLASSIFIED.
8. Masturbationz, dur.

1. When someone is telling me how they feel.
2. I don't feel like explaining the circumstances. Whenever someone underestimates me it pisses me off *irl.
3. I would choose love, because I feel that love and trust go hand in hand. If you love someone you're trusting them to not hurt you and likewise them. I feel love is more reciprocated than trust is. You can feel happy with love, but it's not necessarily true with trust.

4. Cliche is to save the dog. I don't know which I would do though... if I had a family I would seriously consider letting the dog drown..

5. No. But not for the 5 years part, because I have already come to terms with their death along with the people who knew them. It would be even harder to let them go. Not to mention it would be really hard for them to let go at the end of the day in return. It's better to leave the dead alone.

6. My attitude, yes. I'm a really positive person irl and that's the type of people I like to hang around. But I'm sarcastic and I think that would get on my nerves so no lol.

7. Aside from family... never.

8. Someone I loved.

1. looking into someones eyes when i say how i feel
2. actually last night . customer wanted a shirt that was advertised in the store, and it was sold out. she totally flipped out on me.
"WHERE IS THIS SHIRT?"
"i believe we're sold out on it"
"WHERE CAN I FIND IT?"
"other walgreens stores probably carry it"
"NO SHIT WHERE THE FUCK ARE THEY?"
"ill find my manager and tell you."
-5 mins later, when i learn the manager has no clue either-
"SO, WHERE ARE THEY?"
"no walgreens around [city] carrys them, sorry."
"WHERE IS YOUR MANAGER"
/me takes her to manager
/she flips out on her, telling her how shitty of an employee i am.. etc

i was pissed.

3. trust. love is nice, but without trust, you get an instable relationship. that doesnt appeal to me

4. i would save the dog.. then sprint like niggas runnin' from KKK to work.
but its interesting how many people will let others suffer + die to save their own skins.

5. probably not, for the reasons celes said.

6. yes and no.. yes because we would have the same interests and hobbies, outlook on life n stuff.. but no because i can be a bitch at times and am overly sarcastic.

7. not on warcraft. i was talking to coworker about how i felt working, and where i thought it would take me. work sucks, you are unappreciated, underpayed and overworked (for my job, at least). and there isnt opportunity to advance in the company.. mostly because the retarded manager hired a new person + he's getting trained for photo (which i was suppose to get) = im stuck at register forever.

8. apart from video games, it would have to be my procrastination. anyone who procrastinates on major projects until 12 hours before their due knows what im talking about. i mean.. right now i have 4 paychecks i havent deposited to the bank

This post has been edited by Elencia on Nov 6 2009, 09:52 PM

Ele asked me to elaborate. So I make new post! count + 1, desu.

1. I find it equally difficult because when someone is telling me how they feel, I'm usually bad at empathizing with them...And when I'm telling someone how I feel, I'm paranoid about what they think I mean.

2. Ok, so I've been living with my dad almost 2 years now. My dad's been paying child support to my mom for me all this time, because my mom had this idea that I wouldn't like my dad and I would eventually move back. Since that's not the case, and my dad told me about the child support, I told him to stop paying it. I'm not moving back, ever, and there's no reason he should be paying an extra $400 a month for me THERE, when I'm HERE. My mom just lives off that money, she's unemployed, an alcoholic, highly manipulative and sadistic. My mom says to my dad "If you hire a lawyer, I'm sending [brother] to live with you and never talking to you again.".
My dad hires a lawyer.
My mom hires a lawyer.
My mom is trying to make me move back there.
ETC ETC, enough about my personal life this is awkward.

3. Trust, because with trust you always have someone to confide in, someone that will listen, and believe in you. I'd rather not elaborate on this one...

4. I would go to work...Wtf kind of question is this? Honestly I wouldn't care if the dog lived or not, I love dogs, but it's not my problem. Work is.

5. Even if I knew someone that had died, and I could do this, I wouldn't. Would cause all sorts of drama. Wouldn't want to say goodbye again...

6. No. I'm far too narcissistic to want myself as a friend. Besides, even if I could have someone exactly like me as a friend, I'm a suspicious person, overusing sarcasm (irl), I wouldn't get along well with someone who does same things I do.

7. I'm seriously not going to tell you.

8. What Ele said...Procrastination is one of my biggest traits. I procrastinate just about EVERYTHING to the point where it's nearly impossible to do it.
If I had to give this up, life would be boring.

1. telling someone how you feel
2.
3. love probably
4. honestly, it depends on how badly i need my job i guess
5. i would.. but only one day just like makes it worse
6. i think
7. doesn't happen that often.. uh almostn ever happened
8. meat

1. What is more difficult for you; looking into someone's eyes when you are telling someone how you feel, or looking into someone’s eyes when they are telling you how they feel? Niether! I'm comfortable with both, eyes = windows to the soul, btw. o.o


2. Think of the last time you were REALLY angry + explain the circumstances.
I can't remember the last time I was angry.. I'm such a laid back kiddo and getting angry isn't my thing.

3. You can have one of the following two things: trust/love. Explain and justify which. I'm not quite sure what you are getting at here, both are needed for a successful relationship but I guess you mean in general and not so much boyfriend/girlfriend? I'm going to have to go with trust. It is definitely an essential quality for a person to have.


4. You are walking down the street on your way to work. There is a dog drowning in the canal on the side of the street. Your boss has told you if you are late one more time you get fired. What do you do? I would save the dog, any excuse to get myself wet! Nah, but seriously I couldn't just ignore it. I would just find another job, chances are I didn't like the job I had anyway, so lucky me. Save the cheerleader, save the world! Never mind that, been watching too much heroes. ^.^

5. Think of the last person who you really knew that died. You have the chance to give them one day of life back, but you have to give five years of your life. Do you? The only person I can think of is my sister but then again I was only young when she died. I didn't really know her that much since I was a little kidson but she did save me from drowning once, even though she was supposed to be watching me, ffs! I remember it so vividly, not falling in or anything but her diving in and pulling me out of the pool. I would most definitely give her 5 years of my life, even more! Not for her or me but for my mother since it's affected her very much. She's in the baby pic I posted of me. o.o


6. Are you the kind of friend that you would want to have as a friend? I tend to be very lazy and unreliable, so no. If we decided to meet somewhere, I probaly would be late or not even show up, etc. I'm more of a lone wolf, so I prefer my own company.

7. When and how was the last time you told someone HONESTLY how you felt? I've had a few heart to hearts on warcraft with a few friends, mostly when I was worrying a lot about school and life in general but my outlook on life has changed since then and everything is a-okay. I don't talk with my friends much irl they are busy with university or whatever and I'm just too lazy to go hang out or catch up. I do bump into them when I go into the city, quite often actually.

8. What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up on.
My freedom!


This post has been edited by ko[aL]a on Nov 7 2009, 10:08 PM

Cool Answers!

1. Verbalizing to them when I'm telling them how I feel. It's just so difficult to look into their eyes, mostly because of American culture :/ and I'd feel humiliated.

2. I actually don't get mad in real life ever. The last time had to be when this Indian dude tried to start shit with me and we almost fought, but my girlfriend restrained me from fighting him.

3. Trust = Bros, Love = Hoes. Bros Before Hoes. Nuff Said. In a more serious manner: A friends eternal trust, is greater then a girls short term love.

4. This one is hard. I'd save the dog. If my boss is a big enough asshole to fire me for being late due to me being heroic, I wouldn't want to work for that boss.

5. No. She lived her time, she's resting peacefully and to disturb her peace would be selfish of me.

6. I think so. Not to sound cocky, but I'm a great listener, very comforting, laid back, I have a good sense of humor whether it's taking jokes or saying them and over all it would be nice to have a friend that wants to do everything you do(No Homo o_o?) . The only downside is heavy competition for the same girl.

7. 9/27/09 . It was amazing <3.

8. I like the procrastination idea, but I'm not sure if it's the hardest thing to give up. I think computers + internet. I spend a lot of time on the computer. I keep in touch with old friends over facebook + myspace(sort of). I play games when I'm bored, wc3 and others. I use aim + msn, because I spend a lot of time on the phone and can't talk to everyone at once. So ye. Computer + internet.

1. What is more difficult for you; looking into someone's eyes when you are telling someone how you feel, or looking into someone’s eyes when they are telling you how they feel?
Looking into someone's eyes when they are telling me how they feel. I feel more comfortable telling them & looking, because I feel that way, and the other is a little different to me. Dunno.

2. Think of the last time you were REALLY angry + explain the circumstances.
My iPod was stolen from me. I KNEW who took it, but he's a member of a gang, so I couldn't do anything. (didn't think of police yet, I still don't know if I will)

3. You can have one of the following two things: trust/love. Explain and justify which.
I have love. Most of my doings are out of love. I rarely trust anyone outside my family anymore.

4. You are walking down the street on your way to work. There is a dog drowning in the canal on the side of the street. Your boss has told you if you are late one more time you get fired. What do you do?
I'd save the dog. I'm sure I can do it in time to get to "work."

5. Think of the last person who you really knew that died. You have the chance to give them one day of life back, but you have to give five years of your life. Do you?
I don't really know. The last person I knew died was my teacher's husband, but I hate my teacher, and there's my grandma I never knew. So it's a toughy.

6. Are you the kind of friend that you would want to have as a friend?
No. I am more emotional, and base everything with my heart.

7. When and how was the last time you told someone HONESTLY how you felt?
A few days before my most recent relationship was gone. I loved her.. and it didn't work out. Maybe later in life I'll be with her again.

8. What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up on?
A woman. I realized I get VERRYYY sad when I break up with anyone.

1. When someone else tells me how they feel it feels more awkward, not sure why.

2. Honestly I can't remember. I haven't been really angry in years >.>

3. I'd say love. Even assuming trust doesn't come w/ love, love would be more interesting!

4. Save the dog. I'm very frugal anyway.

5. I don't have anyone I knew closely who died, but no. One day isn't worth 5 years.

6. Yes.

7. A month or so.

8. Hard to say. Probably slacking off. I find it really really hard to work on things that annoy me or that I find boring.